FranklinCovey Consultant Blogs | Kory Kogon | March, 2009

The Circle of Good News

Monday, March 23rd, 2009 | Uncategorized | No Comments

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These days it is so easy to fall right into the Circle of Concern….fear about the economy, jobs, houses, etc.  And just when there is a glimmer of hope there comes another dose of a news station with the big “BUT”…..and the emphasis on how bad it is continues it’s pounding cadence.  It makes it easy not to sleep so well at night.

I hunt almost obsessively for the little stories of light…and they are there!!!!!  A car company not needing any more bailout money….why was that not front page news?  Home building permits up beyond expectations…why was that buried???

Anyway…it take great energy to stay focused on the things one can influence….and stay highly effective….and I have a tool for you!!!  It’s this site: http://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/.  They do the job!  They find the good news and leave the other stuff for the other media groups.

I know we need to get through some tough times…but it is so much easier for me to see the forest through the sometimes very thick trees when I have a little support…a little good news.    And I can start to see each small thing adding up…which fuels my optimism and then sends me right back into my Circle of Influence for another shot at whatever challenge I’m up against!

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Work At Effectiveness…Even When It is Hard To Do…

Tuesday, March 17th, 2009 | Uncategorized | No Comments

I had a very, very young man in my 7 Habits class last week. He came to the class just hoping he could get through 3 days of this, since he was asked to attend….but he was amazing. He felt no titles in the room and he had a voice. And he shared that he had a girlfriend. And he thought about how he could be a better partner. And he came in the next day and with shining eyes told us he had a story to share with the 12 of us. We expected to hear how many emotional deposits he made and what great results he got. What he told us was that he was acting with kindness (deposits) in a way he may not have before….but the evening did not work out. He and his girlfriend ended up blowing up at each other….and he slept on the couch. But you know what? His eyes were still shining as he was telling us this story….he felt GOOD that he had made the deposits….he felt GOOD about himself…and he was thinking about the end in mind he wants with this relationship…and he has this new skill of knowing how to make deposits…and be conscious of the withdrawals. He will think about the 5 to 1 rule…..5 deposits to 1 withdrawal. He was trying to set up the win/win. And he will continue to work at it. And he will know if and when this is the relationship he wants made up of courage and consideration from both parties.

Gosh…this is so worth it…but so hard to do……

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