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When Commitment Wears Thin: Getting “lashed to the mast”

Thursday, February 25th, 2010 | Uncategorized | 1 Comment

In Homer’s Odyssey, Odysseus is told of a magnificent song sung by the sirens of the sea, but one that would lure unsuspecting sailors dangerously close to the rocky shore. Lacking the discipline to stay safely away from the rocks but close enough to hear the sirens’ tantalizing tune, previous sailors had sailed closer and closer to the sweet sound until their ships were dashed into the depths. 

Odysseus remains committed to his objective (1669 public domain)

Odysseus remains committed to his objective (1669 public domain)

Circe offered Odysseus a solution. 

Odysseus would have his seamen fill their ears with beeswax, so they could not hear the sultry song and therefore be tempted to sail too closely to shore. All the while they would keep their ship on an exacting and safe course. Meanwhile, having been securely lashed to the mast by his men, Odysseus would be able to bask in the mirthful melody of the sirens, but unable to escape and force the sailors to steer even closer. And while he might shout at his men, insisting that they change course, they would not be able to hear him. 

Around this time of year, many of us may be slipping further away from the course we charted in our New Year’s resolutions. It is easy to get caught up in the urgency addiction of the workplace or homefront, allowing those important – and often less compelling – objectives to crash into the rocks. Perhaps it is time to get “lashed to the mast.” 

Commitment to goals can come from many sources. Here’s one of the more effective sources of commitment I know of: Enlist the energy of others who will help you stay true. Recruit friends and family, ears having been “filled with beeswax,” who will refuse to give in to your convenient excuses and ultimately keep you on course. Consider these specific suggestions to help keep each other accountable:

  • Announce your intentions. You might even broadcast your goal (I’m going to lose 10 pounds by April) in social Internet forums, such as Facebook. People are bound to keep asking you how it’s going. The last thing you want to do is let everyone know two months down the road that you failed.
  • Put the written goal in clear view. Tape it to the refrigerator, bathroom mirror, or dashboard of the car. This constant reminder keeps your intentions front and center.
  • Create a scoreboard that others can access. If your friends are far away, use common file servers such as Google docs to share a spreadsheet that allows everyone to track your progress. Give access to a handful of friends who aren’t afraid to ask you why you’re behind
  • Insert incremental pieces of your goal into your weekly and daily planning routine. Tiny steps every day add up to big progress over the long term. 

Before you know it, you’ll be enjoying the sweet song of the sirens, even as you approach your intended destination!

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